What is self-bondage?
Do you know what
is bondage? In short, it's simply a sexual activity where one partner
ties up the other; with ropes, scarves, chains... with gags or not... strictly
or only in imagination... it's a wonderfully varied activity, and soooooooooo
So, self-bondage is just that but here there is only one partner
and she ties herself up. Yes, she can do it! I can do it! It needs only
some knotting skill, suppleness and imagination. I've been training in
this skill for ten years (I begun when I was 14 years old) and I'm now
pretty good at this. I can probably do anything that you could command
me (but perhaps I wouldn't do it because it would be too dangerous). The
main idea is to use slipping knots or chains and padlocks.
What I usually do is to tie myself up in some strict bondage,
to padlock my wrists such a way I can't untie myself, and then I have to
struggle on the floor, to creep inch by inch to the padlock's key that
lies at the opposite corner of my apartment. Struggling against the ropes
is by itself a great sensation and I often have several orgasms before
I get the key and can access to my clitty to give me the last one...
As you can figure out, self-bondage
can be very dangerous. However I managed to survive ten years by respecting
a few simple and logical safety rules; these rules I don't want to begin
to violate now and so, if you want me to achieve your scenario, you will
have to follow them. Here they are:
What's fun in self-bondage (for me)
is when I cannot escape my binds... Mmmh, well... when I can't escape my
binds as fast as I would want. So I have to use some trick to keep myself
helpless until some time has passed or until I have completed some "mission".
Here I put some tricks I use; they mostly relie on chains padlocked around
my wrists, or handcuffs.
But before all, a little note about security: chains are inescapable
without the keys and as I'm alone when tie up myself I have to be sure
to be able to finally get the keys. Therefore, I rely ONLY on absolutely
secure release mechanisms: no motors, nothing that can be suddenly out-of-order,
nothing that can get stuck or extinguished, only simple and inexorable
mechanisms: the ice melts, the gravitation makes things fall on the ground,
I can creep slowly but surely on the floor, etc...
Ice cubes: By now it is my favorite method. Put
a few ice cubes in a stocking, tie it somewhere (preferably with a bucket
below to collect dripping water); click a snap hook above the ice cubes;
connected to the snap hook is the critical key as well as a string that
goes to my wrist; this string I call the lifeline as it is the only thing
that connect me with freedom. I shall have to wait until the ice cubes
have melted enough to let the snap hook to pass. Why I prefer it by now
is because it is very secure (ice has to melt) and it is always ready to
be used and very innocent looking: only ice cubes in my fridge...
Frozen key: the key of the cuffs are frozen in
a small bottle filled with water. Sometimes, I tie a line to the key; thus
I can keep the bottle away of my warm little hands but I can nevertheless
get the key by pulling the line when the ice is melted. Very secure too
but here I have to keep a bottle with a frozen key inside in my fridge...
Hard to explain...
The far far key: I bind and lock myself in one
room and the crucial key lies in another one... So I have to creep to the
key in order to break free... Simple but efficient and how exciting ! :-)
It is secure as long as you test that you will be able to creep when fully
Knotted key: Here the key can be very near of me,
just between my breasts for example, but with my hands tied above my head
I can't get them. To get free I have to undo the 40 or 50 very tight knots
that tie the chain of my cuffs to an immovable object. When you are suffering
like hell because you added some vicious self-torture to your plight, your
fingers become so shaking that even a simple flat knot can be a challenge
to the best trained seawoman's hands...
Mix: When I am very hot and daring, I mix all those
technics: I have first to untie a bunch of knots, then to creep to the
key, only to find the ice halfly melt... I only did this once...
You can find a LOT of information about self-bondage on these
fabulous sites: http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Gallery/3731/
Where to learn more technics ?
You will find other useful links on my links
How to find a bondage partner?
Self-bondage is great. Playing with a partner is another kind of
pleasure. But it is not always easy to find a someone to do it with you, in
particular when you are a little shy like I am. Here is how I found mine: I'built
a hot profile and searched
for similar-minded peoples.