Self-bondage

What is self-bondage?

Brief presentation

Do you know what is bondage? In short, it's simply a sexual activity where one partner ties up the other; with ropes, scarves, chains... with gags or not... strictly or only in imagination... it's a wonderfully varied activity, and soooooooooo pleasing!

So, self-bondage is just that but here there is only one partner and she ties herself up. Yes, she can do it! I can do it! It needs only some knotting skill, suppleness and imagination. I've been training in this skill for ten years (I begun when I was 14 years old) and I'm now pretty good at this. I can probably do anything that you could command me (but perhaps I wouldn't do it because it would be too dangerous). The main idea is to use slipping knots or chains and padlocks.

What I usually do is to tie myself up in some strict bondage, to padlock my wrists such a way I can't untie myself, and then I have to struggle on the floor, to creep inch by inch to the padlock's key that lies at the opposite corner of my apartment. Struggling against the ropes is by itself a great sensation and I often have several orgasms before I get the key and can access to my clitty to give me the last one...

Safety tips

As you can figure out, self-bondage can be very dangerous. However I managed to survive ten years by respecting a few simple and logical safety rules; these rules I don't want to begin to violate now and so, if you want me to achieve your scenario, you will have to follow them. Here they are:

Nothing around the neck that could unvoluntarily tighthen or press and strangle me
No self-breath-control of any kind
No electric play - But... - No way!
No high above the ground bondage; I don't want to fall and break some of my limbs
Careful fire play: no heat-source in the vicinity of any inflammables stuff (carpet, wooden furniture, wall, book-shelves, etc...
No public self-bondage

Auto asphyxiation can be particularly dangerous. Here are three pages gathered around the net about this subject:
A young boy is found strangulated in Singapore (e-journal article)
Comments about the above accident (e-journal article)
A very complete page about this subject

Release mechanisms

What's fun in self-bondage (for me) is when I cannot escape my binds... Mmmh, well... when I can't escape my binds as fast as I would want. So I have to use some trick to keep myself helpless until some time has passed or until I have completed some "mission". Here I put some tricks I use; they mostly relie on chains padlocked around my wrists, or handcuffs.

But before all, a little note about security: chains are inescapable without the keys and as I'm alone when tie up myself I have to be sure to be able to finally get the keys. Therefore, I rely ONLY on absolutely secure release mechanisms: no motors, nothing that can be suddenly out-of-order, nothing that can get stuck or extinguished, only simple and inexorable mechanisms: the ice melts, the gravitation makes things fall on the ground, I can creep slowly but surely on the floor, etc...

Ice cubes: By now it is my favorite method. Put a few ice cubes in a stocking, tie it somewhere (preferably with a bucket below to collect dripping water); click a snap hook above the ice cubes; connected to the snap hook is the critical key as well as a string that goes to my wrist; this string I call the lifeline as it is the only thing that connect me with freedom. I shall have to wait until the ice cubes have melted enough to let the snap hook to pass. Why I prefer it by now is because it is very secure (ice has to melt) and it is always ready to be used and very innocent looking: only ice cubes in my fridge...
Frozen key: the key of the cuffs are frozen in a small bottle filled with water. Sometimes, I tie a line to the key; thus I can keep the bottle away of my warm little hands but I can nevertheless get the key by pulling the line when the ice is melted. Very secure too but here I have to keep a bottle with a frozen key inside in my fridge... Hard to explain...
The far far key: I bind and lock myself in one room and the crucial key lies in another one... So I have to creep to the key in order to break free... Simple but efficient and how exciting ! :-) It is secure as long as you test that you will be able to creep when fully tied.
Knotted key: Here the key can be very near of me, just between my breasts for example, but with my hands tied above my head I can't get them. To get free I have to undo the 40 or 50 very tight knots that tie the chain of my cuffs to an immovable object. When you are suffering like hell because you added some vicious self-torture to your plight, your fingers become so shaking that even a simple flat knot can be a challenge to the best trained seawoman's hands...
Mix: When I am very hot and daring, I mix all those technics: I have first to untie a bunch of knots, then to creep to the key, only to find the ice halfly melt... I only did this once...

Where to learn more technics ?

You can find a LOT of information about self-bondage on these fabulous sites: http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Gallery/3731/
http://www.dajungle.com/selfbondage/tech/tech.htm

You will find other useful links on my links page.

How to find a bondage partner?

Self-bondage is great. Playing with a partner is another kind of pleasure. But it is not always easy to find a someone to do it with you, in particular when you are a little shy like I am. Here is how I found mine: I'built a hot profile and searched for similar-minded peoples.